You won’t always get it right, and that’s okay. Parenting is the hardest job ever. You are responsible for raising a whole human-being. As the child ages, it gets tougher. Pray for patience and understanding!
To successfully parent, you have to be able to look in the mirror. Taking responsibility starts with you. You must possess a certain level of maturity. If you can’t see your faults, how can you do better in the future? You can’t put the burden on your children to make better choices if you won’t.
Do you know who gets the blame when your child makes a mistake or acts up? DING! DING! The parents alway get the blame. We may think “Well, that’s not fair. I raised my child right.”, however, not all children are receptive. What I have learned so far: it is not just about what you teach, but how you teach.
You won’t always get it right and neither will your children.
If you have multiple children, as I do, you should know that you can’t parent every child with the same hand(no pun intended). Repeating the same thing over again, in hopes of change, is insanity. This applies to discipline. If it is broken, you need to fix it.
Another thing that I have learned: It is okay to listen you your kids.
I’m not telling you to let your kids run the house. Trust me, if you give them an inch, they will take a whole mile. All I’m saying is that it is important to work with your children instead of always being the big, bad, disciplinarian. You want your children to lean on you instead of fearing you.
As a parent, you should take every opportunity to evaluate yourself and your decisions. A strong foundation starts with YOU(in my case, God). Don’t be afraid to tell yourself that you didn’t get it right today. We all fall short. As long as you have breath in your body, you have another chance!
I just wanted to drop this quick read. It’s always busy around my home during the late-year holidays . While this has been a unique year, we are trying to make the most of these holidays. God bless you and your family.
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